Knowing When To Let Go...

          I have found that in life you meet two kinds of people...There are the ones that are in your life forever and then there are the ones that are there for a season of your life...Determining the two bids the biggest issue for us all.Usually this is apparent in relationships between male and female.There are some people that come into our lives to teach us things to get us over the hump (whatever the "Hump" is for you) to give us a boost in our present and future situations.We are to learn from these people and recognize there function in our lives.The "Forever people" if you will, are far far and in between.These people are a gift from the most high and in most cases act as a guardian or more like a messenger.What do I mean by "Messenger"? This person usually can tell you about yourself ,things that a the seasonal person can not really grasp.This person gives you insight and acts as the inspiration on your shoulder, be it good or bad. In all of this comes a warning as well.When the time comes for this seasonal person to exit,depending on the way you have handle this can prove to be difficult,unhealthy ,stressful and in some cases deadly. I'll give an example: You meet a woman,she's nice, looking, smelling all of that. Appears to be the ideal woman for you ,somebody you want to take home to Mom, right? Well as the relationship grows you fail to establish what type of person this is to you, is this a forever person or a seasonal person? So, you invest time,money and then without warning something goes wrong, you find out that what looked and smelled good turn out to be bitter and ugly.Now, you figure people go through ups and downs in relationships and they can be worked out but you realize that this is something that can not be fixed,however in the process of determining this you have had sex, she has met your family,she knows where you work you know where she works.You are attached by the hip but your personalities are trying to pull apart, why? Because this person was sent for a season to show you something that you failed to learn.So the relationship becomes bitter and now you hate each other.Windows busted ,name calling ,Playing on your phone , and in most cases depending on how long this goes on children are involved. Why you ask? I'll tell you why!!! Seasonal breaks up are violent break ups because this person was only meant for a season..So what happens when you get cold air in one season and hot air in another..Thunder and Lightning and Storms..Until we realize are mistakes that lesson will continue to repeat itself, so you'll continue to have bad relationships until you distinguish the seasonal from forever and realize the lesson this person brings..Same test different questions.. In life, you can't move on to the next subject until you have dealt with the "Subject ....".